This is the first book about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender families that connects issues of gender, sexuality, and the family with the broader issues of social movements, politics, and law.

Chapters address the themes of visibility, transgression, and resistance, as well as the intersection between the personal and political in the contexts of relationships, parenthood, and political activism. Giving special attention to families of color, immigrant, and poor families, the authors examine the risks entailed in coming out and the significance of class, race, and sexual and gender identity in this process. Parenting also creates dilemmas of visibility as queer families negotiate malls and schools as well as the medical, legal, and political institutions that regulate their families.

This book explores how heteronormative and class assumptions influence state polices on parenthood, adoption, and relationships between adults, to question whether the law can meet the needs of queer families. Also discussed is how queer family politics are com-plicated by bisexuality, nonmonagamy, and gender nonconformity.

Edited by Mary Bernstein and Renate Reimann

1. Queer Families and the Politics of Visibility, by Mary Bernstein and Renate Reimann Part 1. Relationships 2. A Member of the Funeral, by Nancy Anne Naples 3. Weddings Without Marriage: Making Sense of Lesbian and Gay Commitment Rituals, by Ellen Lewin 4. We Can See Them, But We Can't Hear Them: LGBT Members of African American Families, by Michael Bennett and Juan Battle 5. Talking Freaks: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Families on Daytime Talk TV, by Joshua Gamson 6. One Man's Story of Being Gay and Diné (Navajo): A Study in Resiliency, by Margaret A. Waller and Ronald McAllen-Walker 7. Family Secrets, or How to Become a Bisexual Alien Without Really Trying, by Elizabeth Randolph 8. A Place Called Home: A Queer Political Economy of Mexican Immigrant Men's Family Experiences, by Lionel Cantú 9. Constituting Nonmonogamies, by R. Jeffrey Ringer 10. Communication in Asian American Families with Queer Members: A Relational Dialectics Perspective, by Gus A. Yep, Karen E. Lovaas, and Phillip C. Ho Part 2. Parenthood 11. Affording our Families: Class Issues in Family Formation, by Terry Boggis 12. Should Lesbians Count as Infertile Couples?: Antilesbian Discrimination in Assisted Reproduction, by Julien S. Murphy 13. Protecting our Parent-Child Relationships: Understanding the Strengths and Weaknesses of Second-Parent Adoption, by Susan Dalton 14. My Daddy Loves Your Daddy: A Gay Father Encounters a Social Movement, by John Miller 15. Alma Mater: Family 'Outings' and the Making of the Modern Other Mother (MOM), by Maureen Sullivan 16. Lesbian Mothers at Work, by Renate Reimann 17. "Aside from one little tiny detail, we are so incredibly normal": Perspectives of Children in Lesbian Stepfamilies, by Janet M. Wright Part 3. Political Activism 18. Building Common Ground: Strategies for Grassroots Organizing on Same-Sex Marriage, by Irene Javors with Renate Reimann 19. "What if?": The Legal Consequences of Marriage and the Legal Needs of Lesbian and Gay Male Couples, by David Chambers 20. Take My Domestic Partner, Please: Gays and Marriage in the Era of the Visible, by Suzanna Walters 21. Defense, Morality, Civil Rights, and Family: The Evolution of Lesbian and Gay Issues in the U.S. Congress, by Donald P. Haider-Markel 22. Political Organizing and the Limits of Civil Rights: Gay Marriage and Queer Families, by Randall Halle 23. Transgenderism and Sexual Orientation: More than a Marriage of Convenience?, by Mary Coombs 24. Gender, Queer Family Policies, and the Limits of Law, by Mary Bernstein