"The studio was decorated in the style of Don't Be Afraid, We're Not a Cult. All was white and blond and clean, as though the room had been designed for surgery, or Swedish people. The only spot of color came from the Tibetan prayer flags strung over the doorway into the studio. In flagrant defiance of my longtime policy of never entering a structure adorned with Tibetan prayer flags, I removed my shoes, paid my ten bucks, and walked in . . .
"Ten years ago, Claire Dederer put her back out while breastfeeding her baby daughter. Told to try yoga by everyone from the woman behind the counter at the co-op to the homeless guy on the corner, she signed up for her first class. She fell madly in love.
Over the next decade, she would tackle triangle, wheel, and the dreaded crow, becoming fast friends with some poses and developing long-standing feuds with others. At the same time, she found herself confronting the forces that shaped her generation. Daughters of women who ran away to find themselves and made a few messes along the way, Dederer and her peers grew up determined to be good, good, good--even if this meant feeling hemmed in by the smugness of their organic-buying, attachment-parenting, anxiously conscientious little world. Yoga seemed to fit right into this virtuous program, but to her surprise, Dederer found that the deeper she went into the poses, the more they tested her most basic ideas of what makes a good mother, daughter, friend, wife--and the more they made her want something a little less tidy, a little more improvisational. Less goodness, more joy.
"Poser "is unlike any other book about yoga you will read--because it is actually a book about life. Witty and heartfelt, sharp and irreverent, "Poser "is for anyone who has ever tried to stand on their head while keeping both feet on the ground.
"The studio was decorated in the style of Don't Be Afraid, We're Not a Cult. All was white and blond and clean, as though the room had been designed for surgery, or Swedish people. The only spot of color came from the Tibetan prayer flags strung over the doorway into the studio. In flagrant defiance of my longtime policy of never entering a structure adorned with Tibetan prayer flags, I removed my shoes, paid my ten bucks, and walked in . . .
"Ten years ago, Claire Dederer put her back out while breastfeeding her baby daughter. Told to try yoga by everyone from the woman behind the counter at the co-op to the homeless guy on the corner, she signed up for her first class. She fell madly in love.
Over the next decade, she would tackle triangle, wheel, and the dreaded crow, becoming fast friends with some poses and developing long-standing feuds with others. At the same time, she found herself confronting the forces that shaped her generation. Daughters of women who ran away to find themselves and made a few messes along the way, Dederer and her peers grew up determined to be good, good, good--even if this meant feeling hemmed in by the smugness of their organic-buying, attachment-parenting, anxiously conscientious little world. Yoga seemed to fit right into this virtuous program, but to her surprise, Dederer found that the deeper she went into the poses, the more they tested her most basic ideas of what makes a good mother, daughter, friend, wife--and the more they made her want something a little less tidy, a little more improvisational. Less goodness, more joy.
"Poser "is unlike any other book about yoga you will read--because it is actually a book about life. Witty and heartfelt, sharp and irreverent, "Poser "is for anyone who has ever tried to stand on their head while keeping both feet on the ground.
Claire Dederer's essays, criticism, and reporting have appeared in "Vogue, The New York Times, Slate, Salon, Yoga Journal, Real Simple, The Nation" and in newspapers around the country. She has taught writing at the University of Washington. A fourth-generation Seattle native, she lives with her family on Bainbridge Island in Puget Sound.
"[A] fine first memoir, and it's heartening to see a serious female
writer take such a risky step into territory where writers of
literary ambition fear to tread, lest they be dismissed as trivial
. . . [What] makes "Poser" work on a lot of levels is that first in
line to ask searching questions and poke fun is the author herself
. . . "Poser" is a powerful, honest, ruefully funny memoir about
one woman's openhearted reckoning with her demons . . . In the
hands of a gifted writer, the universal is embedded within the
personal. Guess what? Your bad wallpaper made for a lovely book."
--Dani Shapiro, "The New York Times Book Review
""Let me be honest about something: I love yoga, I live for yoga,
and yoga has changed my life forever--but it is very difficult to
find books about yoga that aren't incredibly annoying. I'm sorry to
say it, but yoga sometimes makes people talk like jerks. Thank
goodness, then, for Claire Dederer, who has written the book we all
need: the long-awaited funny, smart, clear-headed, thoughtful,
truthful, and inspiring yoga memoir. To simplify my praise: I
absolutely loved this book." --Elizabeth Gilbert, author of "Eat,
Pray, Love
""Why did Claire Dederer take up yoga? Short answer: for the same
kinds of reasons that Elizabeth Gilbert changed her life in "Eat,
Pray, Love," and to much the same funny, charming,
self-deprecating, stealthily inspirational and (quite possibly)
best-selling effect . . . This appealing writer's first book is
long overdue. It's clear from the start that she will be
transformed and find a sensible, spiritual nonsappy way to become a
devotee before "Poser" is over."" --"Janet Maslin, " The New York
Times
""This memoir about [Dederer's] decade doing downward dog while
raising two kids and trying to keep her marriage alive reads like
"Eat, Pray, Love" for hip but harried moms . . . Funny,
well-observed and ultimately inspiring." --"People" (four
stars)
"This book is going to be big. Claire Dederer manages to pack
everything into this personal memoir: childbirth, money, schools,
social class, career anxiety, parenting, sex, friendship, marriage,
and yes, yoga. And don't forget Dansko clogs--'always, always,
[the] clogs.' Thousands of American mothers share Dederer's
experience as they glance up from their darling, maddening new
babies to find themselves in a new sphere: hip, progressive,
trying-really-hard-to-do-it-right mom-world. "Poser" is written for
them . . . From the bendier-than-thou instructors to the
more-locavore-than-thou preschool parents, Dederer captures
everyone in her world with humanity and gentle wit. So many readers
will relate to her story; not just the long minutes spent in
downward dog or the hours lost wandering the aisles of Whole Foods,
but the years of pondering the mysteries of family relationships,
past and present. And the fleeting moments spent staying, as the
yogis say, focused on the breath." --Buzzy Jackson, "The Boston
Globe
"""Poser" achieves something rare: It's a contemporary book about
yoga that doesn't leave you squirming, suspect or bored . . . The
illusion of commiseration here is really just a triumph of
truth-telling, of a writer having the courage to confront her
limits and sit, uncritically, in the messy present. Like a yoga
pose, it doesn't have to be perfect to be exquisite." --Lewis
Mernit, "Los Angeles"" Times
""As a yoga-culture skeptic, I began this book with a certain dread
of encountering breathless, self-righteous platitudes, but I was
immediately charmed and disarmed by Claire Dederer's fiercely
intelligent, funny, unsentimental voice. This book contains real,
hard-won insights; yoga became, for Dederer, a rebellion against
goodness, not a path to it. This story of her revolt against
perfectionism is a joy to behold and a true inspiration." --Kate
Christensen, author of "The Great Man "and "The Epicure's
Lament
""[A] warm and funny memoir . . . Dederer is a gifted storyteller,
not just for her turns of phrase or her ubiquitous humor. Her
memoir reads like a rich conversation with a friend, moving from
laughter to quiet reflection and back again. She remains utterly
relatable and real, and to that I say, Namaste." --Kim Schmidt,
"Star-Tribune "(Minneapolis)
"["Poser" has] the gravitational pull of a good novel and an
unusually genuine voice that envelops the reader swiftly . . .
Dederer sparkles when introspection is ruthless--the result reads
true "and" funny." --"Kimberly Marlowe Hartnett," "The Seattle
Times
""This funny, spectacularly well-observed, and moving book does
what even yoga can't: it provides solace while making you laugh. I
feel three inches taller." --Henry Alford, author of "How to
Live
""Claire Dederer is all these women: a daughter attempting to make
sense of an irresistibly nutty divorce; a new mother trying to meet
the standards of a peculiarly liberal breed of uber-moms; a wife
struggling to salvage intimacy in a marriage slammed by exhaustion,
mortgage payments, and encroaching in-laws; and a lost soul who
stumbles into a yoga studio and finds salvation. Above all, Dederer
is a brilliant writer whose prose sparkles and cuts deep. "Poser
"is a book you will want to immediately share with your friends.
It's hilarious, unflinching, and bursting with love." --Maria
Semple, author of "This One Is Mine
"""Poser "is a bracingly honest investigation of family and
freedom, parenting and perfectionism. It is also funny enough to
make most writers swoon with envy." --James Marcus, author of
"Amazonia
""[An] enjoyable memoir about life and the provocations of
childbirth made palatable with yoga poses. . . . Through 'coronal
planes, ' sutras and savasanas, from downward dog to lotus poses,
Dederer contributes nuggets of yoga trivia paired with a droll,
self-effacing delivery that's both down-to-earth and pleasingly
introspective. Delicious fun with a friendly nudge for readers on
the fence about yoga." --"Kirkus Reviews
""Dederer's humor is tangy and precision-aimed; her targets are the
sine qua non of memoirs: mothers and marriage. A book reviewer and
social critic with bylines in the "New York Times," "Slate," and
"Vogue," Dederer acidly deconstructs hip, politically correct
Seattle . . . Dederer writes superbly and offers sharp insights
into family dynamics as well as hatha yoga's impact on American
life, the focus of a growing number of groundbreaking books."
"--"Donna Seaman, " Booklist""[Dederer] writes with a directness
that is rarely less than compelling. And she's genuinely funny. . .
With wry humor and an utter lack of pretense, she navigates a path
between and beyond orthodoxies, anchored in love and family, open
to possibility. 'Poser' will find a devoted following among women
weary of pronouncements and prescriptions." --Janice P. Nimura,
"Newsday""" "If you've every done a downward dog on a sticky mat,
you will laugh." --Jennie Yabroff, "Newsweek""" "In any case,
Dederer's book is only tangentially about yoga. It could just as
easily have been called 'How to Be a Perfect Mom, Wife and Daughter
in the Uber-Liberal Confines of the Pacific Northwest.' . . .
Dederer proves an effective storyteller. She knows how to set up a
punch line, how to foreshadow a big moment, how to create drama out
of the everyday bits of a life. Yoga is the catalyst, the act that
repeatedly forces her to look inward." --Bill Eichenberg,
"Cleveland Plain Dealer""" "Dederer is a mother with the heart of a
poet." --Michael Pearson, "The Virginian-Pilot""" ""Poser," which
tells the story of Claire's attempt to become absolutely perfect at
yoga--and, by extension, life--is knocking me out. It's very funny
about yoga culture and disarmingly honest about how complicated
marriage and family life can be." -- Peter Terzian, "Culture
Diary," "The Paris Review"
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